THE DERIVATION: Positive from Negative

Do we get into a fit of rage after being disgraced or insulted? If so, a quick look around us and we will discover that a particular set of people in the various aspects of life would not flare up at the same occurrence. A scholar once said, “The community we live in has two sides and will influence you in either way; the good side and the bad side depending on which side you are faced with. Good things come to those who know it value, tap into it and get the best outcome.
However, things do not proceed according to plans. Whichever situations you find yourselves in, no matter how bad it might be, one should not give up. For thousands of decades, great scholars and philosophers have put perception to use and explained repeatedly how perception matters in surviving a great deal of hardships in this life. Have you ever stopped to think, that the mockery or disgrace is not really about jest or the insult being hurled at someone? It is about how the disgrace came to be, it is about what actually caused the mockery. Take this as a challenge rather than swallow the remark, deny its existence and give up. Do not back off, enable and ensure creativity and productivity. With the result, you can cancel the insult. Render the insult void with your result.
 Decision making tends to be a big problem for some people. A lot of lives are in sham and shambles because of the words; ‘satisfaction’ and ‘contentment’. These are just masks. They are masks covering the fear of taking the next step, the fear of rising up to challenges, the fear of failing and trying to cover the fear of mockery, public opinion and disgrace after failure. They end up leading a life full of indecision and confusion. Just try to make to make the decision in whatever you are faced with, yes or no, going north or south, going high or going low. Make the  decision, hope for the best but prepare for the worst. If perhaps it fails, get back on your feet. Refuse to take your lumps, it did not work the first time does not mean it was not right or it won’t work the second time. Take your chances, do not get cocky, you might get lucky and hit the jackpot.Find something that motivates you, even if it is the mockery or insult that keeps you going, you will not lose focus. There is the word ‘masculine’ manifesting from EMASCULATION. No matter how powerless and ineffective you might want to become, brace yourself, become a man about it and reinforce your resolve. It takes just the brain to draw up a plan for anything but the plan actually needs a man to step up and take action With the right choice, the right perception and a strong resolve, the result will kick out the insult and the disgrace will become the cause for your grace. You will find out that, sometimes, it isn’t what we know or think that saves us, lending and applying other people’s logics, idealism and perspective saves us a lot in the course of our life.